If you want software, I recommend NOLO. Google it and buy a book (that comes with the CD for template). You are all set. In a situation likes yours, two wills, two health care directives and two power of attorney docs take less than one hour to complete. There is no need for attorney. Living trust is a little bit more complicated but retirement accounts/life insurance doesn’t go through probate. So if you and your spouse are both young, a living trust only helps you on our primary residence when you both die of a sudden death. Very small probability for a probate in my opinion.
