I’d recommend Tierrasanta too. My oldest daughter was in the gate program at Farb and my younger 2 girls attended DePortola. DePortola is the far better middle school in my opinion. For elementary schools I’d try to get my kids in the Kumeyaay area or Vista Grande area. They are both nice elementary schools. Kumeyaay though is just awesome.
You also might want to consider Scripps Ranch. I have friends who live there. It’s a really nice community and they have good schools too. I’m more partial to the old Scripps Ranch area.