I would say go to some professionals (not necessarily those on this blog) and ask questions.
Tell them how you are feeling and ask their opinions about getting the results you want.
Then go home and sleep on it.
Ask at least three agents about your situation and talk to at least three lenders.
Don’t be shy about asking questions and don’t worry too much about their feelings.
We do this for a living and we get over rejection and disappointment pretty quick.
But make your decisions prudently.
Don’t make moves out of fear or to save feelings.
Backing out after a $300 inspection or a 2hr property showing is better than living in regret with a place or a loan you hate.
