I have never said that we should invade and/or use weapons against Iran. Please do not put words in my mouth. I have said numerous times that war should be avoided, if possible. Just because I think a strong military is important, does not mean that I think it should be used for every problem. If I were married to man who was an oncologist, I would not run around suggesting that every person with a strange lump should immediately get radical surgery or chemo.
I am very proud of being a military wife. I am proud of my husband and his service to this great country. I have no wish to send him off to war. In fact, my wishes are for the exact opposite. But if it happens, I will send him off with smile on my face and my tears saved for later.