How about this. You quit your job for however many years rendering your skills useless. You destroy your body breeding for your husband. You work for free: Cooking 3xs a day, doing dishes, cleaning, vaccuuming, doing laundry, performing sexually, running errands, grocery shopping, taking kids to and from school, band, football, ballet, shuttle/cab service, etc. etc. Now ask yourself what all that would cost if you had to pay someone to do it for however many years.