[quote=Hobie]
.. or are you cracking (or growing up!) and really considering getting married. :)[/quote]
I could argue that holding onto the fantasy of widespread marital bliss (I’ll allow that there is some bliss out there) is a sign of not “growing up.” I also don’t gamble hoping to hit a Big One. Your suggestion that buying into The Lie is a sign of maturity tells me everything I need to know about the level of cultural brainwashing to which you’ve been subjected.