Hmmm.. all it takes is one ardent cyclist to turn this into a thread I love.
CF’s safety (or lack there of) is probably overblown. Yes, they will break instead of bend. However, given their recent popularity and how many enthusiasts ride them and how little we hear about breakage, their safety is probably sound.
Now, if you want to talk Steel is Real, get Ti. If you want american made, get Seven. Also there are tons of small indi bike builders (Strong, Cycip, Moots, etc).
having said all that and as the owner of several bikes (all of which are made in USA except 1 Colnago), if you purchase bikes, 50% of its value will be from Italy or Japan (Campy/Shimano). Buying American is not in bikes.