Hey, I love the women power morning! I too wear a bra and make sound financial decisions, often at the same time! I think a lot of men are secretly intimidated by savy women, but in my opinion an equal partnership is the best way to run a marriage.
I agree that you should introduce your wife to this website and encourage her to spend some time reading the charts and facts. Hopefully she will see that planning together the best future for your family is more important than impressing everyone with her big shiny new house.