Here’s the problem, Too many people have selfishly internalized the frequent wise admonition to “enjoy life” to be a synonym with the also wise and frequent admonition to “enjoy yourself” . So few spend the time “enjoying life” which could be a lot of time and instead a lot that time money and energy goes to wishing for and trying to enjoy themselves to fill the void and in the mean time slip into depression or anxiety about why they are not “enjoying themselves”, that’s why we have an epidemic of depression and all kinds of disorders. That sex,meal, trip or new toy didn’t really make me enjoy life truly because it can’t do that. We have then become desperate accidental hedonists or losers without the means to enjoy life( not in kingdom of heaven space at all), to varying degrees of course.