Happiest is the man with low expectations, though you seem to have doubled up on “hot.”
I think intelligence is as important as looks, because I’m not interested in quick flings. Every time I evaluate a woman its as a long term relationship, never a fling. It just seems to risky to try to find short term. It may happen but the odds are against it.
I’m truly surprised at the comments from you and urban about dating smokers. I suppose if all you are out for is pleasing yourself, then the self destructiveness of that behavior doesn’t give you pause. It sure does for me.