Haha- I’m not sure its so much luck as its about being honest with who you are, and what you want in life in every facet of your life, including with your mate. Life is complex enough, there is no need to make it more so by pretending or trying to be someone you’re not. Just call a spade a spade and get on with it. I know a lot of men who feel your pain – glad to hear you’re holding out for the right one versus settling!