[quote=FlyerInHi]CAr, your post is full of illogic.
Of course, men and women should treated equally under the law.
What are “faults” anyway? Unless faults are defined by law, they should not even be given consideration.[/quote]
Equality and equitability are not the same thing.
Adultery and abuse have been illegal throughout most of human history. Drug/alcohol abuse has been illegal or been used as legal grounds for divorce for much of history, as well.
I’m all for people coming up with their own terms before getting married (personally, we have a nuptial agreement stipulating faults, among other things, and how this would affect the distribution of assets and alimony awards). Whatever people decide, the terms of the marriage and possible dissolution of marriage should be clear from the very beginning.