[quote=FlyerInHi][quote=6packscaredy]When I look at an attractive woman not my wife all I can think is good Lord what a pain in the ass she’d be or as Charles bukowski put it I’d rather drive from Los Angeles to Manhattan in reverse than start over with another woman.[/quote]
And you know that it is a pain in the ass because the first time was pain enough? You got the kinks worked out already that you don’t want to start over from the beginning.
Is this a process where the beginning is a pain and it gets better afterwards?[/quote]
I would guess that most people who are happily married after many years would agree that the beginning years are the most difficult. Once you get into a groove, it gets pretty easy as long as both people are relatively considerate and low maintenance.
