FLU–You’re right about the male/female ratio in the Bay Area. It’s really similar in S.D. as well, this being a military town and all. On the attractiveness 1 to 10 scale, my spouse and I rate around 5 each. She turned out 10. Twice, she has been contacted via SF Craig’s List “Missed Connections” (I think that’s what it’s called) by guys who have seen her (one, at a concert at the Fillmore, of all things) asking, “Are you this girl?” She’s great friends with both of these guys, but not intimate. They are techies. I keep my mouth shut. The guys we made fun of in high school who were in the AV club (I’m 52) are Silicon Valley millionaires.