DWCAP, don’t be such a hard a**. I was trying to be discrete, but if you really must know, my friend is a home health nurse, and so the people he cares for confide in him much more then they would a perfect stranger on the street. This was one of his patients, and I think you’ll find that when someone is caring for you as a nurse or a doctor or whatever you will confide a lot more then you would a perfect stranger.