Do you upper crust people avoid drama in your relationships really?
Brian mentions avoiding drama, I see polite people as being as dramatic as anyone else , just less likely to get you in the emergency room.
Not sure how to say what I want to say. But if you put a man and a woman together there is going to be some drama.
As to love, that’s an instinct , it can be there from the start, no problem and it can hang around in the right environment and not in the wrong.It seems like Love survives by keeping the environment right and makes shared affection possible. That’s an art. Maybe in old age something different but good (i am not old yet so I don’t know).
Love generally comes first ask any man who has tried to give his wife some affection when the environment wasn’t right ….drama, Unless it was a financial transaction.
Brian has never sounded to me like he would be setting up the right environment for love and affection to me, not with a woman from any “class” Some money is going to have to change hands and I don’t think it will be from any woman to Brian.
Saying that you are not going to marry below yourself is drama.