Only a small-minded person could make a statement or even think a thought like that. [/quote]
Only a small-minded person could read my prior post and see that I clearly stated I was NOT going to make the point you’re accusing me of making. I declined to pursue that line of reasoning despite its availability to me. [/quote]
Then why even bother mentioning it in the post?
[quote=CBad]
My husband and I think they have an arranged marriage. We think she approached him with a marriage deal: sire one child with bare minimum nanny duties in exchange for all expense paid life of leisure. Now, is he the gold digger and at risk of being kicked out when the looks fade? ;)[/quote]
Definitely sounds like a Mimbo, LOL.
[quote=scaredycat]
what alwasy scares me is the final retort of women, “well, don’t play around if you don’t want to pay”.
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I say that b/c the general feeling of men is that that is what women want, to trap men. So caution to all men that feel that way. If they are not looking for a family, exercise due diligence when playing. The outcome could very well be something they did not anticipate.
As I said earlier, I don’t respect women who resort to the tactics of “trapping” men, but also, men have to protect themselves and not be victims of “I was tricked.” Men need to own some responsibility here. You guys have heard about the pregnancy trap, so it’s not like it’s never happened. It’s not something new. I would think by now all men are aware of this, so they are on notice and it behoves them to act accordingly, particularly if they specifically do not want a family.
