Bob G, your sarcasm is not only unproductive it’s unappropriate. He should be proud that his wife is home taking care of the kids (I wish more people were involved with their kids like this) and he is making more than 100k, which is well above the median salary for San Diego. Don’t knock someone down because of your own personal issues. He is asking a question and the mature people are giving responses that are useful. You sir are a troll.