[quote=Blogstar]BTW, CAR,
I looked at the contract you posted on page one for banker Dave, I think it was he who requested it. Pretty serious stuff….How legal is it all? I mean, does it carry any weight in a court? What difference would it make in say, a case of abandonment.
4 drinks a day is a lot….they could be large. 4 drinks a day is alcoholic to me. 4 drinks a week is about right on the high end. What about chocolate?[/quote]
I think it was Brian who requested it, but yes, it’s supposed to be legal. We’ve had multiple attorneys from two different firms take a look at it (our attorneys showed it around because it was so different). Abandonment is listed as one of the faults. Agree with you about the drinks (and I don’t usually drink alcohol, DH does), but we were trying to be as liberal as possible with it, without letting it go too far. Everybody makes mistakes, and we wanted to incorporate some manner of allowance for just “being human” into the agreement. As you and scaredy have noted, it’s ridiculous to think that any spouse is going to be “perfect.”