I feel sorry for the guy too however, I would NEVER criticize him for having four kids!!!!!!!!!!!! Were you a mistake too? I’m number 3 of 4 and my husband is also number 3 of 4. We have two kids and we’d like to have 6! Go ahead and gasp! When out in public, do you observe other families and think to yourself,”Oh my gosh, they have 3 kids! The third one is a huge mistake for humankind!” I sure hope not.
I love my children dearly. My sister in law can’t have children so I’ll have 2 more to keep the population the same. Okay, that adds up to 4. Since there are so many homosexuals nowadays, I might as well have 2 more children to also keep the population the same.
Don’t worry, my family is a contributing family to society. Maybe my kids will find a cure to AIDS or cancer. Maybe they will just be good people that make a diffence in someone else’s life. Having a big family can also help kids learn not to be so selfish. They may have to share a bedroom (oh no!). I’d rather them share a bedroom and learn tolerance than to grow up spoiled with lots of “things.” My husband and I share a bedroom of course and I’m glad I learned how to put up with someone else snoring and making noise at night!
Maybe someday when you have chilren, you will be awed at how amazing they really are.
Whenever I hear the argument that people can’t afford to have children, I realize its not that they can’t afford them – they don’t want to have to give up their personal time and money or expand upon their education so they can give their children more. What inspired my husband to finish college? A wife and children. Without the kids, he admits he may not have been as motivated.
Shame on you for calling four kids a “bigger mistake.”
You may think my comments are strong but don’t mess with me because I raise my kids and they are our world’s future.