I don’t think anyone is mad at you. I think people are just amused/surprised at how torn you are about this decision.
At one point you said:
“if i buy NOW at $350..and the house falls to $325… i don’t care. if it falls to $250k…i’d be pretty bummed”
Because you said the above, people advised you against buying.
It goes w/o saying that no one is 100% certain about what the future brings. It’s just that with the magnitude of the current bubble, especially in Temecula, those who understand real estate understand that is a very good chance that there will be a big crash.