Understand why you would be seeking info wrt your move.
I’d rather not give personal recommendations, but I can tell you we’ve really enjoyed living in RSF for many years, and I would suggest you take a look at sdlookup.com and enter the 92067 zip code to get an idea of what’s available. LJ and DM are great too, but RSF has much more open space, privacy and golf options.
Wrt CC’s–here are some in the area you might want to check out:
rsfgolfclub.com
thebridgesrsf.com
thefarmsgolfclub.com
bayclubs.com/fairbanksranch
delmarcountryclub.com (in RSF)