Love does conquer all, including fear, anger, bias, and greed. It is forgiving, and does not keep score. That said, if you love her, it would be an undeniable truth that would not need the advice of your fellow piggs! Your post is evidence enough that your relationship has not grown to a level of true love. So perhaps best to not make any decision, share your truth with her, live for today and trust that your heart will lead you to the right place.:)