[quote=Blogstar]Not sure I follow all this but if the fence makes any sense do it. if the irrigation is on your side of the fence just dig in there and cap it off for now. If their irrigation is crazy and they don’t adjust for your new fence the fence is going to get damaged or wear out form all the water, so keep that in mind with the fence.

I think they just took the plumeria down to say that if the can’t have it no one can. You probably have a chance to get through this with out major trouble if you are patient and take it in small steps.

Sorry if I am off on some things. I want to be helpful and have a similar struggle going on but don’t want to read the whole thread.[/quote]

The sprinklers are gone and we are going to put in new ones on our side once fence goes up. We are going with white vinyl so water shouldn’t be a problem.

Think you are right with plumeria. The trunk is on our side. They cut off everything on OUR side so the tree now completely leans to their side but we get the trunk. We need to take off another large branch that bows out to our side them curves to theirs, so we can put in fence as close to property line as possible

I agree all the things they’ve done are trivial, but taken together it’s just too much for us. How long are we suppose to put up with neighbors, stripping rose bushes, spraying your car with water, killing grass and other plants, mangling trees, shinning bright lights at your house, dumping water in yard, etc…

Hope you’re able to resolve your situation soon and peacefully. Life’s too short for this crap.