[quote=Russell]If someone got caught masturbating with a blue boy magazine or couldn’t help but grope someone, or demand they be made queen of the unit, there could be trouble to varying degrees.[/quote]

Okay but again you are talking about disruptive behavior and I am not.
I agree that disruptive behavior should be addressed.
All I am saying is that behavior should be the referent and sentiment should not.
Perhaps that is because, while gay-friendly as you say (though I would characterize it as not giving a shit), I do not like it when people hit me over the head with their sexuality.
Whatever.
The point is that if someone is acting inappropriately, that affects unit cohesion.
The thoughts that run around in their head do not.
Most service men would be embarrassed and uncomfortable to serve with Liberace.
Most would be proud to serve with Rob Halford.