Fredo – Your post suggest you are probably new to the dance studio scene. When a studio hosts a recital, they typically present 20-30 dances attempting to showcase the various genres from ballet to jazz to hip-hop. In the spirit of diversity, a few choreographs unfortunately end up appearing risque, especially to the new observer. I had a similar reaction when my daughter first joined, but quickly realize it’s innocent and simply differences in perception, which may explain why you director appeared indifferent. In other words, while one person may see hints of smut, I can assure you the dance instructors only sees art. In my experience, every dance instructor I’ve met sincerely cares about and protects their students. If you’re uncomfortable, by all means pull your child.

The issue with dance studios are the helicopter, alpha moms who relentlessly lobby the instructors on behalf of their kid for lead positions and recognition. There is nothing more volatile or entertaining than putting a bunch of “Housewives of Orange County” type moms in a waiting room with nothing to do but watch their daughters rehearse, gossip, compare boob jobs, and back stab each other. It’s brutal but happens every season, especially if your daughter is on a competitive team.

I also agree cheerleading has evolved into a competitive sport requiring as much dedication and hardwork as any other team sport. I’ve attended regional and national competitions and the energy level from both the competitors and audience rival any Charger-Raider game. It’s absolutely crazy. For us, the purpose of extracurricular activities for children is to develop an appreciation for teamwork, develop social skills and learn to compete. From that perspective, the type of activity isn’t important. The only criteria was to find an activity that our child can excel in.