Josh, have you met you?

On a more serious note, I often believe that I somehow tricked my wife and then I feel guilty that I have somehow limited her options for happiness.
Then I wonder if she will ever notice that she settled.

I mean seriously, how many chicks are able to debate Foucault while watching DS9, have an encyclopedic knowledge of Bauhaus and Iggy Pop, and keep a set of 10-siders in their backpack?

Not bad for a someone who grew up on welfare.