Not to be harsh but this is a public forum and well… you asked the question.
With those stats your life is an impending train wreck. The truth is more like 100% chance of divorce in two years if you start now, and it sounds like you should.
A newly purchased house will mostly have to be sold for settlement issues. Figure spending $30K or MORE to sell it: commissions, staging, repairs, settlement fees, cleaning etc.
Work on getting your life together before making a massive investment in a home.
