Marion,
I thought that attack on you was a tad harsh, as well!

I have a sister who is in her 40s (previously married, but no kids) who uses Internet dating sites and who tells me lots of ads for men seeking women specify that no women with children still living at home need apply. Others veil that same requirement with “you must be free to travel at any time.” Which kinda excludes any woman with a regular job, as well. I wish you well.