My daughter thinks the marriage is in trouble. The wife is very demanding of my daughter. I think she is paying a premium for the “on-call” stuff. She has already bitched my daughter out for not answering her calls when my kid is in class (my kid has wisely said, “I am not allowed, nor will I, answer my cell phone during classes or when I am eating a meal.”) I just don’t know what to make of this. She has a very demanding course load, with plenty of homework, and she told the woman that they needed to set up some kind of regular schedule. My daughter is torn between the money she is being paid and doing what she needs to do at college. She also has said to me, “I don’t want to be a participant in the unraveling of a marriage.” I know it’s un-PC, but I said, “If she didn’t have you, she’d simply hire someone else.”