Marion, any guy who hangs around you after 5 minutes is only interested in anonymous sex. You are willing to trade sex for money. That is called prostitution. I’m not against prostitution, just don’t lie about it.
I don’t know why these guys even respond to you, or why I am reading this thread. I’m not amazed at you, just the guys. I never found getting a date to be difficult. And I have plenty of my own money to buy my own dinner and I’m picky about who I eat with, and sleep with.