Is buying a house like getting married?

[scaredyclassic]

But seriously. Can a person actually be in romantic love w a thing or a place?

[bearishgurl]

[quote=walterwhite]But seriously. Can a person actually be in romantic love w a thing or a place?[/quote]

Yes, scaredy, now that all the health issues are resolved, it’s clear sailing from hereon . . . :=)

Keep walking her parameters and keep telling yourself it’s ALL YOURS!!

[bearishgurl]

[quote=walterwhite]But seriously. Can a person actually be in romantic love w a thing or a place?[/quote]

Yes, scaredy, now that all the health issues are resolved, it’s clear sailing from hereon . . . :=)

Keep walking her parameters and keep telling yourself it’s ALL YOURS!!

[bearishgurl]

[quote=walterwhite]But seriously. Can a person actually be in romantic love w a thing or a place?[/quote]

Yes, scaredy, now that all the health issues are resolved, it’s clear sailing from hereon . . . :=)

Keep walking her parameters and keep telling yourself it’s ALL YOURS!!

[bearishgurl]

[quote=walterwhite]But seriously. Can a person actually be in romantic love w a thing or a place?[/quote]

Yes, scaredy, now that all the health issues are resolved, it’s clear sailing from hereon . . . :=)

Keep walking her parameters and keep telling yourself it’s ALL YOURS!!

[bearishgurl]

[quote=walterwhite]But seriously. Can a person actually be in romantic love w a thing or a place?[/quote]

Yes, scaredy, now that all the health issues are resolved, it’s clear sailing from hereon . . . :=)

Keep walking her parameters and keep telling yourself it’s ALL YOURS!!

[temeculaguy]

Actually I understand Scardey’s feeling. I know which house he bought, I’m familiar with the street and it is definately the kind of place you can fall in love with. Personally I’m allergic to yard work, so I chose a tract home, it suits my needs but there’s definately nothing romantic about my relationship with my house. I like it, I like working on it, but in the end it’s a box to sleep in. Scardey’s place on the other hand is akin to a bed and breakfast, a lush and green estate tucked away in a botanical garden setting. I know it’s not that old, but it looks like it was built in another century. He wasn’t being his normal goofball self when he started that thread about hosting weddings, it’s that pretty and that serene. The location is ultra prime for our region, but that’s all I can say about in order preserve his privacy. Living there must feel like your on vacation. I think I’m spending my next vacation there, he’s gonna come home from work and have to shoo me away from my poolside cigar chair. He’s humble, but he stole that place and of all the people that I know of who have scored deals this downturn, he takes the gold medal, sometimes obsessions pay off.

[temeculaguy]

Actually I understand Scardey’s feeling. I know which house he bought, I’m familiar with the street and it is definately the kind of place you can fall in love with. Personally I’m allergic to yard work, so I chose a tract home, it suits my needs but there’s definately nothing romantic about my relationship with my house. I like it, I like working on it, but in the end it’s a box to sleep in. Scardey’s place on the other hand is akin to a bed and breakfast, a lush and green estate tucked away in a botanical garden setting. I know it’s not that old, but it looks like it was built in another century. He wasn’t being his normal goofball self when he started that thread about hosting weddings, it’s that pretty and that serene. The location is ultra prime for our region, but that’s all I can say about in order preserve his privacy. Living there must feel like your on vacation. I think I’m spending my next vacation there, he’s gonna come home from work and have to shoo me away from my poolside cigar chair. He’s humble, but he stole that place and of all the people that I know of who have scored deals this downturn, he takes the gold medal, sometimes obsessions pay off.

[temeculaguy]

Actually I understand Scardey’s feeling. I know which house he bought, I’m familiar with the street and it is definately the kind of place you can fall in love with. Personally I’m allergic to yard work, so I chose a tract home, it suits my needs but there’s definately nothing romantic about my relationship with my house. I like it, I like working on it, but in the end it’s a box to sleep in. Scardey’s place on the other hand is akin to a bed and breakfast, a lush and green estate tucked away in a botanical garden setting. I know it’s not that old, but it looks like it was built in another century. He wasn’t being his normal goofball self when he started that thread about hosting weddings, it’s that pretty and that serene. The location is ultra prime for our region, but that’s all I can say about in order preserve his privacy. Living there must feel like your on vacation. I think I’m spending my next vacation there, he’s gonna come home from work and have to shoo me away from my poolside cigar chair. He’s humble, but he stole that place and of all the people that I know of who have scored deals this downturn, he takes the gold medal, sometimes obsessions pay off.

[temeculaguy]

Actually I understand Scardey’s feeling. I know which house he bought, I’m familiar with the street and it is definately the kind of place you can fall in love with. Personally I’m allergic to yard work, so I chose a tract home, it suits my needs but there’s definately nothing romantic about my relationship with my house. I like it, I like working on it, but in the end it’s a box to sleep in. Scardey’s place on the other hand is akin to a bed and breakfast, a lush and green estate tucked away in a botanical garden setting. I know it’s not that old, but it looks like it was built in another century. He wasn’t being his normal goofball self when he started that thread about hosting weddings, it’s that pretty and that serene. The location is ultra prime for our region, but that’s all I can say about in order preserve his privacy. Living there must feel like your on vacation. I think I’m spending my next vacation there, he’s gonna come home from work and have to shoo me away from my poolside cigar chair. He’s humble, but he stole that place and of all the people that I know of who have scored deals this downturn, he takes the gold medal, sometimes obsessions pay off.

[temeculaguy]

Actually I understand Scardey’s feeling. I know which house he bought, I’m familiar with the street and it is definately the kind of place you can fall in love with. Personally I’m allergic to yard work, so I chose a tract home, it suits my needs but there’s definately nothing romantic about my relationship with my house. I like it, I like working on it, but in the end it’s a box to sleep in. Scardey’s place on the other hand is akin to a bed and breakfast, a lush and green estate tucked away in a botanical garden setting. I know it’s not that old, but it looks like it was built in another century. He wasn’t being his normal goofball self when he started that thread about hosting weddings, it’s that pretty and that serene. The location is ultra prime for our region, but that’s all I can say about in order preserve his privacy. Living there must feel like your on vacation. I think I’m spending my next vacation there, he’s gonna come home from work and have to shoo me away from my poolside cigar chair. He’s humble, but he stole that place and of all the people that I know of who have scored deals this downturn, he takes the gold medal, sometimes obsessions pay off.

[scaredyclassic]

I got a good deal on a wife and a house. I knew basically what look and type wife I wanted so I was able to act fast and close when I found what I wanted. There were other bids but I knew a good deal when I saw it without actually any agonizing at all. I probably couldve negotiated better terms but the seller had me over a barrel.

House, not so much but alertness, awareness of finances, interest rates and having seen many other places and tracked their actual sales price (I had a little file with notes on houses , open house flyers redfin notes, which housesI had seen so I could see how much they’d actually sell for which went quick , which lingered etc.

So then, when you see something special, you are educated about the general reality of the marketplace and slightly more confident than you would be if you hadn’t been following sales to make the strongest bid I felt I could without getting queasy.

We actually missed, were the backup offer and then got a shot, which was actually for

the best, as that time period allowed rates to fall to their short term bottom. I probably wouldve taken backup status on my wife too, but I was pretty locked in early on
I do not
believe things happen for a reason, don’t believe anything is meant to be, don’t
believe any nonhuman entity in the universe could care less about me or my earthly
maneuverings

maneuverings, but sometimes it does feel like thongs fall into place for a reason. Of
course this is illusory, but like love, it is s beautiful illusion, one perhaps no one should be expected to live without.

[scaredyclassic]

I got a good deal on a wife and a house. I knew basically what look and type wife I wanted so I was able to act fast and close when I found what I wanted. There were other bids but I knew a good deal when I saw it without actually any agonizing at all. I probably couldve negotiated better terms but the seller had me over a barrel.

House, not so much but alertness, awareness of finances, interest rates and having seen many other places and tracked their actual sales price (I had a little file with notes on houses , open house flyers redfin notes, which housesI had seen so I could see how much they’d actually sell for which went quick , which lingered etc.

So then, when you see something special, you are educated about the general reality of the marketplace and slightly more confident than you would be if you hadn’t been following sales to make the strongest bid I felt I could without getting queasy.

We actually missed, were the backup offer and then got a shot, which was actually for

the best, as that time period allowed rates to fall to their short term bottom. I probably wouldve taken backup status on my wife too, but I was pretty locked in early on
I do not
believe things happen for a reason, don’t believe anything is meant to be, don’t
believe any nonhuman entity in the universe could care less about me or my earthly
maneuverings

maneuverings, but sometimes it does feel like thongs fall into place for a reason. Of
course this is illusory, but like love, it is s beautiful illusion, one perhaps no one should be expected to live without.

[scaredyclassic]

I got a good deal on a wife and a house. I knew basically what look and type wife I wanted so I was able to act fast and close when I found what I wanted. There were other bids but I knew a good deal when I saw it without actually any agonizing at all. I probably couldve negotiated better terms but the seller had me over a barrel.

House, not so much but alertness, awareness of finances, interest rates and having seen many other places and tracked their actual sales price (I had a little file with notes on houses , open house flyers redfin notes, which housesI had seen so I could see how much they’d actually sell for which went quick , which lingered etc.

So then, when you see something special, you are educated about the general reality of the marketplace and slightly more confident than you would be if you hadn’t been following sales to make the strongest bid I felt I could without getting queasy.

We actually missed, were the backup offer and then got a shot, which was actually for

the best, as that time period allowed rates to fall to their short term bottom. I probably wouldve taken backup status on my wife too, but I was pretty locked in early on
I do not
believe things happen for a reason, don’t believe anything is meant to be, don’t
believe any nonhuman entity in the universe could care less about me or my earthly
maneuverings

maneuverings, but sometimes it does feel like thongs fall into place for a reason. Of
course this is illusory, but like love, it is s beautiful illusion, one perhaps no one should be expected to live without.

[scaredyclassic]

I got a good deal on a wife and a house. I knew basically what look and type wife I wanted so I was able to act fast and close when I found what I wanted. There were other bids but I knew a good deal when I saw it without actually any agonizing at all. I probably couldve negotiated better terms but the seller had me over a barrel.

House, not so much but alertness, awareness of finances, interest rates and having seen many other places and tracked their actual sales price (I had a little file with notes on houses , open house flyers redfin notes, which housesI had seen so I could see how much they’d actually sell for which went quick , which lingered etc.

So then, when you see something special, you are educated about the general reality of the marketplace and slightly more confident than you would be if you hadn’t been following sales to make the strongest bid I felt I could without getting queasy.

We actually missed, were the backup offer and then got a shot, which was actually for

the best, as that time period allowed rates to fall to their short term bottom. I probably wouldve taken backup status on my wife too, but I was pretty locked in early on
I do not
believe things happen for a reason, don’t believe anything is meant to be, don’t
believe any nonhuman entity in the universe could care less about me or my earthly
maneuverings

maneuverings, but sometimes it does feel like thongs fall into place for a reason. Of
course this is illusory, but like love, it is s beautiful illusion, one perhaps no one should be expected to live without.

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