You need to take the high road here and keep all of this off the internet and away from your boys. You will damage the boys more than they are already damaged if you become obsessive and angry and bitter because the attitudes will spill over into your everyday relationships. Those of us who have been through a divorce and survived with our dignity intact and who have built new relationships with the exes know this is a more productive path in the long run and allows for joint attendance at future weddings, funerals, and birthdays. And it’s “jugulars”, not “jugglers”