When one is reacting from a place of trauma or loss or desperation often logic can not and does not apply.
It is not stupidity or laziness.
I have felt desperate in my life and I made choices that could have been construed by others at the time as stupid (and were, in fact). For me, it was simply a matter of survival. I believed I had no other choice.
For those of you who have not felt desperate and do not know what it is to be in that situation, why not just be grateful.
For those of you who have and are now bitter, why not let it go?
