[quote=Blogstar] The woman will eventually marry a pilot or nerd or banker who might not even be all that nice or interesting and can’t dance.[/quote]
I do have a bias in favor of achievement. It usually is the result of good work habits and at least moderate emotional stability. You refer to pilots and nerds and bankers as though they are, de facto, boring. The most boring dates I had were with guys who felt they hadn’t achieved enough so they had to reinvent/inflate their careers. And you’re right, whether someone is a good dancer is absolutely not an issue at all, as far as I’m concerned.