Thanks BG, it’s not always easy. I don’t like having to watch her weaken. A big strong 5’10” swimmer girl, deadlifting 280 at the crossfit down in Encinitas, just a few years back, now getting weakened with each passing day. She’s 45 her sister died at 42 of Ovarian, I am just hoping she hangs on long enough to bury her parents though they seem very at peace with everything. Stage IV people, know there isn’t a cure so they stop going to the pink ribbon walks. At this point it’s all about surviving as long as you can.

She told me please don’t put in my obituary that she “went peacefully”. She fought like a mofo, is what it ought to say.