[quote=bearishgurl]Eugene, why quibble over $5K to $10K in “theoretical” monies the “community” owes him when, if the tactic I suggested works, the OP can live in the same county as the mom, not have to move and just owe the 1st TD amt. [/quote]

I don’t get it. The $200k will never go away.
If I default on the loan from the ex-in-laws, then they do have a solid case for foreclosing.
The “stipulation and order” with the $85k never made it to the final divorce agreement.