I have two children – a biological child and an adopted child. I can say unequivocally that there is NO difference in my feelings for my children. To say that women have a special bond with children BECAUSE they gave birth is incredibly insulting to women who adopt children. The maternal feelings are identical.
I find many of your posts on this topic to be extremely judgemental. Anyone who has chosen a different life path than you is wrong, or at least less right than you are. As a working mother, I find flip remarks like “stay home to raise your own children” offensive. I do raise my own children. And I work. Despite what you say, the two things are NOT mutually exclusive. Perhaps for you they are, but do not assume that everyone is like you. I do not judge you for your choices. Do not judge me.