I disagree with you a bit. To me, it is a moral society that takes care of those who can not take care of themselves. And in the alternative, those capable of taking care of themselves should. That is both personal and community responsibility. I think both parties have at least said they are for more personal responsibility.
I also think the least moral isn’t the person who doesn’t want to pay for another’s health care but those who are capable of working for or paying their own health bills but who demand someone else to pay for it instead.
Why don’t we expect capable folks to pay for their own health care and not tax others to pay for it?
Perhaps, those capable folks who say they struggle to find the $ to pay for their own health care could go without their cell phones, cable, flat screen TVs and other things, like generations prior to the entitlement generations did.