Sorry to hear Marion, it takes 2 people to have a happy marriage but only 1 to ruin it. Of course there are exceptions but IMO it seems that when men go through a divorce they just want it to be over with and often agree to give the woman more than what is ‘fair’. Some of them regret it after a few years, I’ve seen this many times. Also I’ve seen many times where the woman does not really care at all to take everything they guy has and leave him for dead. Generally men won’t do that contrary to what is perceived on TV, especially if kids are involved.