I just don’t get the obsession about CV. It is not a pretty area. There are a lot better coastal areas in SD that have more character and more soul.
Forget Del mar Mesa. There are plans to one day connect it to Mira Mesa. I guess in SD all mesas have to connect.
The Crosby is Del Sur, nothing special. Santaluz is okay but the fee to just golf is outrageous. The rules attached for landscaping are horrible.
You will probably be happy no matter where you live. What makes a good situation are good neighbours. You can live in the best area in the world but if your neighbours are a$$holes then it makes the living experience unpleasant. UNless of course you can afford a home that has an acre on each side separating the homes. Most of the time, the bigger the homes, the bigger the familes, the more noise you’ll have to deal with.