Wow. I’m really glad I posted this. I didn’t even consider renter or yikes, squatter’s rights! I mean I know this will likely never come up but you never know. Ok, that’s something I need to look into. I also liked the suggestions of attending a couple alanon meetings and writing our agreement down.
To answer some questions, I have 3 girls. And I am fiercely protective of them. This is the reason behind the no friend rule. I work from home and will not leave them alone with this person. I would never in a million years think this person would do anything to harm my girls but have you ever noticed that’s what everyone says when a family member molests their child? I just don’t take any chances.
I do not have a guest room. I’ll be giving him one of my girls’ rooms and they’ll be sharing.