Tales of an RSF Buyer (Epilogue)

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Submitted by raptorduck on May 29, 2008 - 11:17am

We released contingencies on our purchase in Fairbanks Ranch today and in another week or so will be moving into a beach rental in Del Mar until we can move into our new house. So our 18 month home search here in NorCal and SD is finally over and we are about to become your neighbor.

For the past almost 10 months, I have been posting on this board, in excruciating detail, my buyer's journey. I have shared every trial and tribulation, factoid and observation, opinion and reaction, success and failure. I think I have revealed a bit to much of myself at times. Many times I have been critical of sellers and even their agents (or the agents who showed homes for listing agents). Other times of me, my wife, or my own agent. But those comments were remote and should never be taken out of context.

Kudos to my Agent, Laurie Johnson of Coldwell Banker

As for my own agent, I found somebody who went far above and beyond what I could have ever expected of any agent. She stuck with me, an out of town buyer, for a year, looking at over 150-175 homes in SD, an pre-touring many of them for me. She put up with what you folks know to be an OCD, overanalytical, rule freak, obnoxiously petulantly picky client. I mean who insists on 6 tours of the same home? I frustrated her far more than she frustrated me. I tried to do her job for her a bit too much. I got in her way. She did not need me to. She was doing just fine. Many times when we clashed. I was wrong and she was right. Simple as that.

She has left me and my wife so impressed with her, that we are proud to now call her a friend. She proved that she cares for us as clients and human beings, and time and time again took actions that made that all too clear. I will recommend her to everyone I meet looking for a house. Anyone should want her at their side in their buying journey. I know I could not have done this without her. She stuck with me, can you imagine that? I put her through hell at times, and in return she gave her best. I thank her dearly.

Her name is Laurie Johnson with Coldwell Banker based in Carmel Valley and I publically recommend her to the world. If anyone knows what a pain of a client I can be, it is the folks on this board. You all know it takes a special person to put up with me (yes, my wife is special too.)

My Apologies to Listing Agents

I do realize that my posts may have offended sellers and their listing agents. It is safe to say that I toured somewhere between 200-250 homes in NorCal and SD these past 18 months. Conservatively speaking, I would say I interacted with maybe 100-175 listing agents and "showing" agents. I understand that while I often spoke positively about listing agents, my less than flattering occasional comments about selling/listing/showing agents never pointed to particular agents by name. While that can protect the guilty it can also imply that those comments applied to all such agents. They did not. Out of that 100-175 or so, the vast majority were professional and honest. Where I had particularly negative experiences, many of which I have shared here, I simply refused to further consider the house or dealing with that agent.

While my posts were from a buyer's perspective, I never intended to offend the whole class of selling/listing agents. I now realize many such posts could have been so construed, particularly if taken out of context. I know many agents I have delt with have read my posts on this site. Perhaps that hurt my negotiations as they knew every detail of my strategy and views etc. That is ok, but I never intended to offend anyone.

While my negative experiences with some selling agents were real, I had many more positive experiences than negative. In particular, the group below I found to be particularly professional, cordial, and reasonable. They represented their clients very well, but never rubbed me the wrong way. Quite the contrary, they made me want to deal with them. They treated my hard working agent with respect and made it easier for her to deal with them as well. They were experienced and knowledgeable about their listings and sellers and left lasting positive impressions with me and my agent and I want to publically thank them for that.


  • Cathy Worster
  • Daniel Beer
  • Cathrine Barry
  • Feather Slingerland
  • Ann Brizolis
  • Donna Medrea
  • Randy Podolsky

Thanks to my wife

You all know what she put up with. In the end, IMHO, a home purchase should not be an investment or the best %sales/asking price deal. It should be the best compromise of what the people who will live in the house need and want. We found that compromise. She is happy, I am happy, and that is all that matters.

Thanks to all of you

I realize I have thanked you all many times before. I greatly appreciate the help and input I have gotten from people on this site and in particular Rich Toscano, SD Realtor, sdrealtor, BobS, JL, jp, NavyDoc, Rene, FLU, nd, TG, and a number of others. I do plan on offering up a get together after I move in so stay tuned.

gratefully,

raptorduck

Submitted by bsrsharma on May 29, 2008 - 11:24am.

How about writing a book or booklet (not necessarily hardcopy, e-book would be great) collecting your experiences. I think that would be valuable to a potential home buyer.

Submitted by surveyor on May 29, 2008 - 12:11pm.

kudos

While care should be taken to avoid overgeneralization, for all those who think that realtors don't work hard, that theirs is an easy job, to show up at escrow and take the money, let this post (all of raptorduck's posts) be Exhibit 1 to 175 that this stereotype is so so wrong.

Congrats RD. From all your posts, your wife is a gem and please try harder to make her happy. :-)

Submitted by raptorduck on May 29, 2008 - 1:59pm.

Forgot to also thank rustico. The 3 real estate agents on this board, and no doubt other agents that post here, are an asset to it and have generously shared their wisdom with us at no cost. I thank them.

Submitted by sdrealtor on May 29, 2008 - 2:13pm.

raptor,
The best thing you can do to thank her is to write a very nice letter to her broker at the office she works in. The broker will forward it to her. Do it on your own stationary. Testimonials are very valuable and I have seen numerous websites with fake testimonials. One very well regarded realtor in blogsphere has a couple dozen testimonials from clients (allegedly posted by clients) but all posted on the same day. While they might have been copied by that person it certainly brings their authenticity to bear. Make it real enough so it cant be taken as fake.

Any agent worth their salt should be able to produce a dozen or more letters like that at a moments notice. If they can, you can be a bit more confident you are working with a professional. If they cant they are just trying to fake it.

sdr

Submitted by jpinpb on May 29, 2008 - 3:00pm.

raptorduck - I think I got on this board about the time your saga began. It was quite interesting and I don't know about anyone else, but it felt like I was living vicariously through you in your home buying experience. I knew everything would work out in the end and I am pleased to hear you will be down here soon. Extremely nice for you to acknowledge the hard work your realtor went through assisting you in the process and everyone else involved.

Submitted by New_Renter on May 29, 2008 - 4:01pm.

raptorduck,

Congrats on your new home and thanks for documenting your home search odyssey! I think I have read nearly all of your posts over these many months and can really commensurate with what you have gone through. Your insights have been awesome and I much appreciate you bearing your soul for the benefit of your fellow bloggers. Maybe it was some good therapy for you too, eh?

Sincerely,

New_Renter

(Hopefully I will be able to change my login name to "New_Homeowner" at some point in the next year or two!)

Submitted by Navydoc on May 29, 2008 - 8:38pm.

Thank you as well Raptor for your consistently excellent posts, which I always read in their entirety. I hope you stick around with the rest of us as we gradually dip our toes into the troubled waters of the San Diego real estate market.

I'm hoping to write a story like yours this time next year.
Best of luck in your new home, and I sure hope I can make it down to SD if you put together a meet and greet.

Submitted by Daniel on May 29, 2008 - 10:20pm.

Welcome home, RD. Good to have you in the neighborhood.

Submitted by SD Realtor on May 29, 2008 - 10:30pm.

Hi Raptor -

All the best with your new home. I cannot think of any other transactions I have witnessed where there was more due diligence exercised then yours. I think you will be really happy raising your family in FBR. It has been quite a journey!

SD Realtor